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Post by DaveTheFishandChipsGuy on May 18, 2008 10:48:48 GMT 12
Since I am not a guy, why don't they tell you if they'd go out with a girl who has a kid.=3 Just trawled through this, after you guys posted a HUGE amount, and thought I'd throw in my two pence (cos I'm British ;D) Yes, I would if I liked her. Just because a girl has a kid, that doesn't mean much to me. Obviously, it would affect the prospective relationship somewhat, but Britain has the highest teen pregnancy rate in Europe (I think), so it wouln't be as big of a shock. Plus, if I saw a girl I liked had a kid, and she was going for it, trying to raise it properly, etc, then it would show to me that she's mature enough for that, so she's mature enough for a relationship. That, and I'd probably admire her a little, for making it work without the father around. Hope that answers it.
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Post by LuciferIX on May 18, 2008 10:52:22 GMT 12
Sorry, I didn't think I was giving advice. Well even if you weren't trying that was a very good example for the situation. Not to mention that it works with you and Paul still together, even with a few differences.
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Jun 13, 2008 1:59:47 GMT 12
I have some new advice: Any emotion, good or bad, should never be kept bottled up inside yourself. You should be ready to release your emotions at the right moment; as for that, your heart decides when it is the right moment.
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Post by RobSp1derp1g on Jun 13, 2008 4:36:12 GMT 12
We should write a book out of this stuff... Seriously, now, that is a good good advice, Nina_Lumos. Where do you guys come up with this stuff?
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Jun 13, 2008 6:41:49 GMT 12
I'm not sure about the other emotions, but both love and anger easily apply to the advice I gave. Love- if you keep your feelings for someone only to yourself, then you have to see that someone move on with his/her life. If you can't tell that someone how you feel, someone's heart is likely to get hurt, mostly yourself. Anger- this is for those who can't control their angers. One should vent it out once in a while, instead of keeping it gathered up within yourself. If that happens, one day your anger will completely take over yourself, then you're easily prey to mood swings and angry outbursts.
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Post by RobSp1derp1g on Jun 13, 2008 7:10:29 GMT 12
I'm not sure about the other emotions, but both love and anger easily apply to the advice I gave. Love- if you keep your feelings for someone only to yourself, then you have to see that someone move on with his/her life. If you can't tell that someone how you feel, someone's heart is likely to get hurt, mostly yourself. Anger- this is for those who can't control their angers. One should vent it out once in a while, instead of keeping it gathered up within yourself. If that happens, one day your anger will completely take over yourself, then you're easily prey to mood swings and angry outbursts. That is so true... *remembers the first girl he loved* If I had only told her how I felt, personally, I mean, because everyone else knew
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Jun 13, 2008 19:10:43 GMT 12
I know because it almost happened to me. I thought Paul and Micah are going to stay together forever. And, when I heard them break up, I didn't want to be an opportunist, so I waited for Paul to come to me. It was a surprise to me that he did, and, well... We've been together over four years now, and we're still running!
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Post by JbstormburstADV on Jun 14, 2008 15:12:43 GMT 12
^Ah, the olden, golden, Greek virtue of catharsis. How right you are about that...
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Jun 26, 2008 2:04:23 GMT 12
Here's what I call a "romantic moral", which comes from, of all places, a comic book.
When trying to be someone, always be yourself. That way, you will be able to know exactly what kind of partner he/she likes.
Is it lame to any of you? For me, it's quite inspirational...
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Post by narutoninja44 on Jun 26, 2008 9:39:17 GMT 12
^Kinda corny but I likes it.XD
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Post by Elite4James on Jun 26, 2008 11:58:29 GMT 12
Why bullsh*t in a relationship? Lies snowball and get bigger as time goes on. This was how my heart broke the first time, when I was a young teen. She lied to me and kept it bottled up inside. Eventually she cracked and took it out on me, our relationship ended that day. I became more cautious with my heart after that. All other relationships I've had since that one have ended on good terms. Trust goes a long way, don't give anyone a reason to not trust you. In other words being honest from the start is more rewarding because the people who remain with you for who you are, are the ones worth keeping close.
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Post by masterofmirage on Jun 26, 2008 12:11:26 GMT 12
^ (gulp) right there, hit dead on where i am. She took it ALL, blamed the volleyball tournament they lost all on me 'cause i distracted her. I probably winced more times than needed. all well.
4 some reason, after that, somehow, she calmed down and left, I could tell she wasn't terribly angry cause she didn't storm out. that or she's good at bottling up stuff, that I know she isn't. We're still friends, thankfully.
Now, for some other reason, one of my childhood friends looks like she... never mind. I think you all guys know.
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Post by Praetor on Jun 26, 2008 19:41:19 GMT 12
Here's what I call a "romantic moral", which comes from, of all places, a comic book. When trying to be someone, always be yourself. That way, you will be able to know exactly what kind of partner he/she likes.Is it lame to any of you? For me, it's quite inspirational... I always agreed with that. I haven't had a relationship yet, but I had a heartbreak before, I think.
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Jun 27, 2008 1:41:50 GMT 12
It is all about honesty, after all. You can't expect to be together with someone who can't be truthful to you, right?
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Post by quattro on Jun 27, 2008 3:12:46 GMT 12
Well, I hate to be the only not lonely one here, but my girlfriend and I are having a picnic on Sunday...
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