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Post by LuciferIX on Apr 12, 2009 17:11:31 GMT 12
Seriously? Sorry to say this here but I wouldn't have thought of Paul that way. But then again you would know him better than any of us here.
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Apr 12, 2009 17:40:27 GMT 12
I think it's from all the anime and manga that he's been watching/reading. He always blames his curiosity for it.
Take this one example: last friday we went with our friends to Tagaytay, a tourist resort spot here in our country. He's not exactly happy when I wore a one-piece instead of the two-piece he bought for me earlier. And then there's the fact that he keeps looking at one girl after another at the beach with wandering eyes instead of me, that's just a few of what happened....
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Post by XAOTL on Apr 13, 2009 0:30:45 GMT 12
Don't worry, every guy gets like that once in a while. Even if it's a little bit.
Just make sure things don't get too far. If it dose, you got to get things back in line.
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Apr 13, 2009 1:56:33 GMT 12
No worries now, I hit him where it hurt most. Earlier today when grocery shopping, like I do every week, I purposely left out his usual weekly stock of potato chips, mayo, and ketchup (the latter two, mixed, can make for a nice dip for potato chips).
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Post by RobSp1derp1g on Apr 13, 2009 5:53:23 GMT 12
Don't worry, every guy gets like that once in a while. Even if it's a little bit. Just make sure things don't get too far. If it dose, you got to get things back in line. yeah, even me, and I'm very shy |
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Post by timoteyo7 on Apr 13, 2009 10:07:21 GMT 12
And then there's the fact that he keeps looking at one girl after another at the beach with wandering eyes Then I think you should guide his eyes to the right place if you catch my drift.  |
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Apr 14, 2009 2:17:05 GMT 12
Tim, I'm not that sort of person. Paul knows that, and he respects that. The problem is, he forgets these such things, a lot.
At the end of summer break (June) he's going into training at PNPA. I don't know why though, he's already a reservist. Maybe that police training will sort him out, or, judging with the experiences I saw him have in other military-like courses (ROTC, for example) I don't have my hopes high.
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Post by JbstormburstADV on Apr 14, 2009 10:52:55 GMT 12
Trust me, Nina (sorry I forgot your name, but I really haven't seen you in ever. BTW, what's up?), I have to agree with the entire consensus here. H---, I've been through it a bit, and I'm still with a_f, even after ten months. So, just let it go its own way, but if it ges too far, assert your role.
And even though I may as well hate myself for a bit after saying this, but no matter how perverted Tim, his point does have some ground. I'm not saying that you need to go bad, but remember, relationships are give and take.
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Post by narutoninja44 on Apr 14, 2009 11:18:40 GMT 12
And even though I may as well hate myself for a bit after saying this, but no matter how perverted Tim, his point does have some ground. I'm not saying that you need to go bad, but remember, relationships are give and take. Maybe she feels uncomfortable with that stuff? :zaru: |
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Apr 15, 2009 1:19:54 GMT 12
Jb, I have trouble asserting my role, especially since he's four years older than me. Believe me, I tried several times, but it only got both of us confused. On the other hand, I sometimes think that I am the older one of the two of us...
My insight on his, pervertedness, just got worse this afternoon. When I came to wake him up to dinner, he grabbed me, and pinned me to the bed. While he's asleep. Nothing really bad actually happened, although he muttered my name in his sleep. At first I thought it was a sweet thing, then the thought that I had about what he may be fantasizing about, things, made me really uncomfortable.
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Post by thepinkpowerranger on Apr 15, 2009 2:43:49 GMT 12
Most guys, I'd think, think about things with their girlfriend. It isn't a bad thing, it's just a normal occurence for guys to think about those things, especially about their girlfriend. But if it really truly bothers you, I'd suggest just having a conversation with him about it, explaining to him exactly how uncomfortable it makes you feel.
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Apr 18, 2009 16:08:32 GMT 12
He promised that, for my sake, he would tone down his attitude for a while. Will find out soon enough, our gang's going for a beach day back in Tagaytay again.
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Post by LuciferIX on Apr 22, 2009 10:40:35 GMT 12
Hold him to that CJ. At least it still seems that you are the only real on in his eyes, sorry to say this but it could be worse. Other than that I doubt that I need to repeat what others have already said so just give it time.
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Post by Nina_Lumos on Apr 23, 2009 3:30:02 GMT 12
Paul and I did return to Tagaytay, and he did keep his promise. So, I sort of made my own, as a surprise for him: I wore the two-piece that he wanted me to wear over a week ago.
As for his, um, urges, I decided to forgive him. Guess what? It brought us even closer. The softie...
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Post by Praetor on Apr 23, 2009 22:14:34 GMT 12
^ Well, there's a happy ending.
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